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Maybe Thailand is done with low budget mass tourism and is ready to change its image by moving more towards focus on business and high class tourism. Aside from that this could one day price me out of staying in Thailand for extended 4 month trips I think this is a good thing. Aren’t all the people expecting Thailand to remain unchanged asking Thai People to stagnate and remain economically submissive and serve a wide smile with every dollar item we purchase from them?
I have long wondered if a lot of our attitude to travel wasn’t rather condescending towards the people of Thailand (and beyond). What do we wish for Thai people if we for just a moment consider what is best for the people of the country that we claim we love so much? Is it best for them to continue serving boozed up backpackers and (sometimes) grumpy; judging by the forum posts I read; retirees?
I think I am ready to be witness to seeing Thailand level up. It already is an economic powerhouse, Bangkok is a world class city. New visa regulations may just be the latest changes to claim a different global standing.
I AM sorry for everyone caught up in new minimum income / minimum bank balance requirements. Many people have nowhere else to go. They bet on Thailand. I do feel compassion for them and the anxiety they likely feel.
I found a couple of youtube channels that may be useful reference points for you online.
1) Integrity Legal Thailand
2) Hailey, Thailand Elite & Retirement Visa Specialist
This was all for today’s paragraph fragments, served and unedited straight from my brain. What do you think? Will Thailand fundamentally change? Do you approve?
(I am thinking I may write more regular short thoughts of the day to record the fragments that pass through my mind while I cook or go about my day.)
Let’s start exploring San Francisco together. No words, just photos.









Paddy Doyle in Thailand is a friendly, wholesome, family friendly Youtuber, currently exploring all 77 provinces of Thailand on a little motorbike that he named ‘Dreamy’. Great viewing for anyone who has always wondered: “Why aren’t we seeing more about Thailand outside of the well known tourist hotspots?” Paddy is doing a great service to broadening all of our horizons and the next time we visit we should all take a leaf out of his book and get off the comfortable beaten path because it’s a big country with so much more to offer than the same same places.
From his Channel’s About page: “About Paddy — I LOVE to entertain, educate, and inspire people to get out there and have adventures, so let’s explore the world, eat new and fantastic foods, and let’s just spread some positive vibes as we do so!”
ABOVE is one of his recent videos that I missed to watch and I only noticed because I went to look for a good video for you to view to get a first impression.
And how could I almost forget? Paddy shares beautiful drone footage of many of the places that he visits. If you are a Thailand geek then the drone footage is a must see. (I’ll link it HERE & BELOW.)
(I recommend that you play YOUR OWN music if Paddy’s choice doesn’t do it for you. I played this super cute and relaxing Korean playlist at low volume, while watching Paddy’s drone footage. It was the perfect combination for me.)
If you want to follow along Paddy’s 77 province journey then you can jump right in OR go all the way back to the first video of the Series #1. Link HERE .
When I first found Paddy Doyle’s channel during my research for channels to add to my huge list of 40+ Youtubers who are making videos from Thailand I instantly liked him but since following Paddy for several months my husband and I have grown increasingly fond of Paddy’s videos and now have a ritual of watching his latest Thai Provinces video, when it comes out, with our dinner.
We really appreciate Paddy’s incredible work ethic. It’s a huge amount of work to not only ride a rickety old scooter from one province to another and on repeat but to also research locations, film and edit videos, maintain any semblance of sanity while doing all this completely alone most of the time and upload these videos on a reliable schedule. This is an extremely intense work schedule that he has created for himself AND the videos are enlightened. I mean this in terms of that Paddy Doyle’s videos give us a glimpse into so many provinces of Thailand, true, we mostly get just a little glance but if anyone wants to place a critique on this good man I’ll be the first to suggest: “Do what he does and try do it better, see how hard that is and then tell me your thoughts.”
Once you follow Paddy for a while you likely will likely get the same feeling as I do: Here is a genuinely decent young man with a vision and some dreams. A person with emotions who occasionally hints at that it isn’t all glittery and glorious when one goes on an adventure like the one Paddy embarked on and is taking us along with him. Every few weeks when a challenging situation presents itself to Paddy and his channel mission we feel with him and just want to cheer him on to overcome the obstacles. Maybe it’s just me and my husband who feel like this. Let me know in the comments: Do you find yourself rooting for a stranger on the internet, feeling protective over them when you see a negative comment somewhere?
So I say: Give Paddy Doyle a Youtube follow and press the like button / thumbs up / or clap buttons wherever you see them. Because anyone putting their time and heart into putting a piece of themselves on the internet deserves the support that even a gesture like a ‘like / clap’ contributes to. This goes for any and all creators whose videos, photography, art, music or writing you ingest. Unless it upsets you: be supportive.
Sweet and Tasty TV and Miss Minna are the brainchild of Minna Oh, a Korean American creator and owner of at least 3 Youtube channels. She presents her videos with an imaginative, slightly quirky but also grounded personality which makes watching her videos engaging but also calming. She is the kind of person you likely would share your birthday cake with.
Minna Oh has captured and maintained a sense of wonder at the small things in life. You’ll know what I mean once you watch 2–3 of her videos. Sweet and Tasty TV is all about Korean travel and Korean food, including several instruction videos for making your own Korean food. While Minna Oh’s Miss Minna channel covers her travel and food experiences around the world.
She also has a third quiet* ASMR channel that I hear through the grapevine is awaiting a rebranding, so let’s see what new direction Minna will take it in.(*see what I did there? ‘quiet ASMR channel..’?)
I first found Minna Oh through a collaboration that she did with Mark Wiens**, sharing a meal together at a North Korean style restaurant in South Korea. Since then I have watched probably 25% of Minna Oh’s entire catalogue of videos. 2020 and 2021 were trying years and living and enjoying vicariously through Minna’s past travels and her 2020 Korean food recipe videos helped me get through …
(** Mark Wiens = the infamous food appreciator who got his start in Thailand and has since taken global travel food Youtube by storm.)
Minna Oh is frequently accompanied by Mommy Oh, her adorable and all food appreciating mother. Every food that Mommy Oh enjoys is the …… food (Fill the blank — yes you: the reader, I’ll leave you to watch some videos and fill in the blank. Put your answer below in the comments. Your prize will be: gentle fuzzy joy in your hear region.)
(Below is the second one of Minna’s videos that I ever watched and it includes Mommy Oh — I love Thailand, I initially stayed for Thailand and now I stay for Minna and Mommy Oh.)
These are very family friendly channels and very respectful of people’s privacy: Minna Oh frequently blocks people’s faces with little illustrations of almonds to respect their privacy, unless they have given consent to being filmed. Here and there people stray into the scene and not 100% of strangers receive an almond for a face cover but I appreciate Minna’s thoughtfulness, extra effort and respect for others.
And if you also just love Thailand and need a huge list of Youtubers based out of Thailand in 2020–2021 then I have you covered. I researched a list of 40+ Youtubers in Thailand, link HERE, it includes a handful of women, POC and local Thai creators; I am always looking for more to balance out the scales of representation and so that we can see the most different perspectives and experiences possible.
I LOVE your suggestions for channels that you think I might like, please share them with me. I am always on the lookout for new or new to me ‘Asia & world travel and food youtube channels’.
Miriam Follin’s channel is calming, informative, sharing glimpses of life abroad in China. A Swede who moved to live in China, married … then- moved with with her Chinese husband to Sweden. A bi-cultural life shared through the eyes of a woman who sees beauty and meaning in small things. Very family friendly, very calming.
One of the reasons why this channel is special to me is because it shows the life of a couple who overcame, and perhaps you could say continue to overcome, cultural distances, differences, geographical and immigration regulations and are building a life and a family. Finding one’s way through the hurdles that an international relationship can present is no easy feat, no matter how dedicated two people may be. Likely there will be compromises and hardships along the way and I think it is wonderful to follow a couple who make it work. See how they navigate through the oceans of bureaucracy and adapt to each other and each other’s heritage.
I don’t want to give too much away but there are now 2 babies and I am waiting with my breath held to see the latest updates from Miriam’s channel. Miriam’s husband Yonghong also started a Youtube channel so it is possible to enjoy following him during their, involuntary, time of geographical separation.
And for now that’s it. A list of just 3 Youtube content creators who dedicate a significant part of their channel to travel & life in Asia. Minna Oh and Miriam Follin share their experiences with the linguistic ability to five deep into Korean and Chinese food and life, while paddy Doyle does a great job at being respectful and showing us corners of Thailand that we might otherwise never see on one single channel.
Remember to support content creators whose work you value.

I don’t know about you, or actually I do know a little bit about you: You are a human who occasionally forgets how good you are at something. What do you do when that feeling of doubt sneaks up on you? What if it’s worse and you battle a few of the hungry ghost mid-post pandemic anxieties, maybe even depression? How do you ground yourself? Please tell me because I have days where I could use ALL the tips and tricks.
Regularly collect feedback from humans around you. In my case I sometimes question my value to others, so I collect feedback from my career development clients and business ESL students. They are a mixed bunch from around the world and have wildly different needs.
I can’t recommend collecting feedback & reviews highly enough. It is an absolute MUST not just for your emotional grounding but actually also for your professional present and future life. Reviews let others know that you are valued. Feedback lets you know what you can aim to improve. Caution: Feedback pointing at something that isn’t perfect doesn’t mean that one skillset that you are weak in makes you worthless, you know that right?!
You can ask friends to write you reviews & / or feedback. And then it’s time to get serious: Ask your colleagues, ask your manager, even the company CEO. Are you self employed, a freelancer, an entrepreneur, a solo-preneur? Then ask your clients and customers. I promise this is something you won’t regret because you will gain so much reassurance.
Give your people some guidance: You can say: I lay awake at night worrying and I need a reminder of what I bring to this company, to your life, to your experience etc…
Today I spoke with one of my clients about shame and embarrassment about having lost skill in a specific area that is needed to support the work he is doing. He was embarrassed when his colleague helped him and swiftly concluded that perhaps he isn’t knowledgable and capable enough and should leave his profession. NO-no-no-no-no. Do not allow shame to stop you when you are half way to the finishing line. It’s not the skills gap that ruins careers it’s allowing shame to have a louder voice than the trust that a skills gap can be filled and that everything else we know and are capable of is valuable.
Today I looked through some of the reviews that I got this year. It looks like I may have been useful. Maybe time to stop laying awake at night worrying that I didn’t deliver enough value?
Some feedback from my students (unedited):
“I can’t recommend Birgit highly enough. Birgit is not only a great teacher but also she helped me a lot with polishing my CV and cover letter to be more attractive for my job applications. Moreover Birgit has a lot of business and consulting experience. Her insights and tips helped me enormously with my preparation for interviews and to increase my self-confidence in my professional life.”
“It was a great lesson. We talked a lot about social entrepreneurship and business in general. It is hard to find an English teacher who can discuss those topics in deep like her.”
“I recommend Birgit from the bottom of my heart! She helped me perfectly prepare for the interview. It was incredibly interesting to discuss my work (Digital Marketing). In addition, she had the ability to coaching and where I was afraid she led me by the hand, reinforcing my self-confidence as a professional.”
“I am so lucky person because I meet Birgit. She is my English and Business teacher. Today she consulted how can I improve both of my English and Business skill. Thanks!”
“Thank you very much. I should pay more for your time and help.”
“Every class with Birgit blew me away. She is amazing teacher and person. Thank you so much and I hope to see you soon.”
I can’t thank all these people from around the world enough. They trust me with their time and hand over the steering wheel into their future, for a brief time in their life but it’s quite a lot of trust I am being given.
Please tell me in comments if you followed my advice and asked for reviews / feedback and tell me how did it feel thinking about asking and how did it feel receiving it?
My first ever Ambient Sound Walk in Hong Kong. As soon as the borders open I will return and film a revised sound walk for myself and anyone of you who also loves to see places from your desk. It is time to dust off this wonderful, humid memory and video file.
This was my shortest city visit that I have ever done but it stuck in my memory like no other (a little like the humidity that day stuck to my skin). I caught the Hong Kong Bug and dream of returning to this place that is so unlike anywhere I have ever been before.
I wish my Jetlag hadn’t been so strong and my stay so short, I would have loved to take so many more photos and videos of my 24 hour layover on my way from London to Bangkok.
If you would like to buy me a Hong Kong Waffle and coffee then I would love that! But letting a video run all the way to the end, leaving a comment and subscribing are also fabulous.
• paypal.me/BirgitInAmerica
• https://buy.stripe.com/4gw4ix4Zq26FfL2aEI. (You can change the quantity of coffees and shout me 2, because double the coffee = double the happiness.)
Should I edit this video and upgrade it somehow? What would you want to see or know? Have you been to Hong Kong? Did you make a MUCH better video? Please let me know in the comments below. –
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Since 2006 I have lived on 3 continents. It all began with a 4 month trip to Cambodia and India. Skip ahead several years and eventually I fell in love in Italy, had a long-distance relationship with an American that ended up with me being washed ashore the Pacific coast of California. Please subscribe to my channel and hit the little bell icon.
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I use a Nikon D750 – But I’m no longer a huge fan of Nikon solely because of my customer service experience with them when I bought this camera brand new and had problems with it. To get any kind of service I had to put a man on the phone who knew no photography terminology. I’m not one to usually pay too much attention to sexism but on this occasion it was impossible to ignore.
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I started writing about travel, housesitting, petsitting and health (including having surgery and recovering in America) on http://www.over7seas.com
Love isn’t always perfect, nor easy but remind yourself anyway: “I am loved”
So I just made this to remind myself and perhaps you, too: “My mother loves me.” Yesterday I just had this sudden urge to call my mother and tell her that she is loved. It’s like the universe nudged me. A phone call later and long story short: This phrase popped into my mind and I felt like sharing it with whoever see this. Because you should know it, you should be reminded of it. Because you deserve to remember: Your mother loves you, too.
(And in case its it’s not your biological mother than the earth, Gaia, or the divine mother. Feel loved.)
HERE is the link to the Fridge Magnet (available in 3 sizes).
Here is the link for the Tote Bag for your grocery shopping.
The prices aren’t dollar store prices so I completely understand if you can’t get one of these reminders of your mother’s love for you; but in case you ever run out of a gift idea in the future, the store also has mugs, postcards, t-shirts and aprons and notebooks and the postage cost will work out better when you get a batch of for example cards at once. I get a small percentage from the sale that I make there (to date they amount to only a handful of sales) the remainder goes towards the operating and printing costs that RedBubble has. RedBubble is the name of company I am using for this print on demand hobby adventure. If I make 2 sales I can go for a very nice cup of espresso somewhere. If I make 4-5 sales then I can buy my own bag of favourite Vietnamese coffee and ultimately make many cups = equalling: many happy mornings.




I plan on playing around with this idea a little more and I have a few other phrases in mind that someone out there, maybe I or you, shouldn’t forget. Maybe this is at last the gift to give to someone who has everything? Maybe you can just send them a card you made yourself. You could buy paint and a blank canvas bad and handwrite your own declaration of love.
But it would tickle me and surprise me if one day I should find another few dollar in the print shop. You are always welcome to surprise me.
With love from me to you, on another very late San Francisco night. Making very small projects still takes a surprising amount of time from start to upload, to fine tuning and then finally to sharing here on this little, often dormant, website of mine.
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Clue: it wasn’t for the money.
I have always wanted to get an English teaching certificate and dip my toe further into the field of ESL. As a regular if infrequent German language tutor since the mid- 90’s and an occasional English language instructor during a spell of time when we lived in Padova in Italy I always wondered if I was missing out by not having taken my TEFL certificate. I always question if completing a Celta course wouldn’t improve my opportunities somehow.
Well, a certificate, no certificate, can make anyone a perfect person. No matter what theories and practices you learn a good portion of success will be based on personality. But as I mentioned a while ago: I eventually signed up to a TEFL course when I realised that I had spending more hours looking at courses, over a period of 15 years, than it would have taken to complete one. I may be exaggerating but you get the idea: Don’t think about it for too long because you might as well do it and find out what you need to know along the way, there are no perfect decisions.
But none of this explains what possessed me to sell my services online for $7. In my physical (and pre-pandemic) life I was paid a minimum of $35 and as much as $60 per German language lessons. Why would I back pedal to get paid less than at my first ever job when I was 15 years old?
Now that I am typing it out this really is crazy.
But it had to do with a) confidence building and b) I wanted to test out an idea for an ESL lesson that is a business and career development lesson. To form my idea and my target audience more clearly I could either sit at my desk alone and think about it and write up a business plan OR I could try it out on people in real life, who at the low fee of the $10 that they paid to the platform had nothing to lose and everything to gain.
And so I started.
I also was hoping to fight a pandemic induced bout of depression that was hard to shift and laid itself like a solid roadblock between myself and everything else, ever other possible action. I wasn’t as successful with this plan as I had hoped but it was good enough. It got me through the past 4 months, while I learned to deliver value to my students. Sometimes I failed and many of my students were not the type of future client that I am looking for. Over time I gently removed them from my weekly schedule and of 38 students in the first month I have reduced my numbers to about 10, more or less active ones. 6 of whom are inspiring me to now finally write my course curriculum so that soon I can serve people back in my real, physical, hopefully post-pandemic life.
Sometimes it’s worth testing an idea, even if on the face of it you are risking the labour and time that you put in. I thought of the past months as a kind of internship. The pay was so low that in San Francisco it isn’t any money at all. What I made over almost 200 lessons pays for one week of a reasonable job in the San Francisco Bay Area.
But sometimes making no steps forward and even sliding back is better than not paddling at all.
This wasn’t the ideal approach and I know I am wasting my life and potential somewhat, but if you ask my students they don’t think so: They are grateful and appreciative and many have reported how helpful the hours with me have been to them.
Think of it as a paid coffee meeting with a stranger who will appreciate your time.
Please subscribe to my blog and let me know if you would like me to tell you about my English language teaching project. And why I would work for less than 1/2 the minimum hourly wage for unskilled labour in San Francisco.
Just an extremely short note from me today. I just realised that I haven’t written anything since returning to San Francisco a month ago. I’ll share my first impressions of 2021 in San Francisco and of our new apartment soon but for now just a little promotional post. :
We got 50% of our longterm petsitting clients through Rover. You can communicate with your sitters ahead of time, check references and arrange a meet-and-greet. I think the greater risk is when people hire dog walkers like they order pizza. Price is also an additional point that may determine the quality of service. I tagged Rover because as a sitter I have had predominately positive experiences. For home & pet owners I recommend that you are discerning and ideally not in too much of a rush to hire so that you can meet sitters / walkers in person and consider your options. Have a list of questions ready to ask and a good list of instructions for your pet’s needs. http://sit.rover.com/p2H3j < this is a referral link.
I wouldn’t recommend them if being a part-time Rover sitter hadn’t been a sincerely positive experience for us.
If you aren’t in a city with access to Rover then you could try TrustedHouseSitters as an alternative. You won’t get paid but I still consider it an option when travelling abroad where I don’t have the same referral network as I have in California and some owners who are away from home simply don’t have the funds to additionally pay for a local sitter. It can be a fair compromise, just remember that once you agree to sit you should be as sincere and conscientious in your approach as if you were paid a full day rate of $50-$90 or a full weekly rate of $250-$…. (whatever your maximum weekly rate may be when you house/petsit closer to home.)
As a home owner you might like the idea of free house-petsitting services but please consider leaving a tip, home and pet guardianship can feel like a hobby to you but it’s quite a responsibility to the sitter. At least the sitter should treat it as such to ensure that everything is taken care of as you would like.
Referral links in this blog post:
ROVER & TRUSTEDHOUSESITTERS As a home- & pet owner you will save money when you use my links to sign up to either of these two platforms. (Or in the case of Rover you can make money if you become a sitter.)
I will receive a small referral bonus if you use my links, at no additional cost to you (you will actually save money). To receive the benefit you need to sign up and use the service within a specific time frame. This changes from platform to platform but is typically within a 10-30 day time frame.
It’s not exactly a career move but I have always wanted to get a TEFL qualification and dip my toes in tutoring / teaching English online.
It’s NOT a particularly rational bucket list item as the pay is not even nearly a living wage; unless of course you really specialise and throw your WHOLE heart and a lot of time into it. I on the other hand am only dedicating a corner of a heart chamber for now.
In my first week being registered on italki I already have 14 lesson bookings!
I might maybe add German to my offerings at some point but for now I am just irrationally spending my time getting paid some peanuts to meet people around the world and cheerlead their English language learning efforts. Something tells me that I am a nerd.
Luckily I love nerds.
For the slow pokes in the back: I am a longterm fan girl of this teaching platform, I am also taking language lessons not just offering them there. https://www.italki.com/i/ref/C6c6ee?hl=en
If you are potentially interested in applying to teach or in booking lessons yourself then with my link you will save some money on your first booking.
(And if you use my link to sign up as a teacher then I would LOVE that, it would give me a referral bonus.)
I passed my TEFL certificate with flying colours (I accidentally got a 97% pass rate) and now it is time to find a teaching platform to offer English & perhaps German language lessons on. Which of the many options should I choose. My first obstacle is that I don’t hold a passport from a primary-language-English-country. (Excuse the awkward way I just phrased that.)
Here I’ll share my experiences applying as a tutor to teach English online with several companies. (Italki, Preply, Verbling, LivXP, Wyzant, Craigslist)
I have taken over 60 language lessons with a total of 8-9 different language tutors, some professional, some categorised as ‘community’ teachers. Having had only positive experiences on the Italki platform this is naturally the first place that I applied to become an English teacher on.
Italki application process: Check if the language that you would like to teach is open for new applications. English is often not open. I have waited a total of about 2.5 month before I was finally able to apply. I am currently waiting for my application to be reviewed. The platform is EASY to navigate and clear. My single small complaint would be that I didn’t notice a section to upload my certificate but I found in FAQ that once the application is submitted you can not add your certificate. Ahem.. Glitch. I am not sure if this is my glitch or Italki’s glitch. But I’ll deal with it. It may mean that I need to reapply at a later stage, which could mean waiting another 1-2-3 months before I get to onboard to Italki. (But I am an Italki fan girl so I will just keep trying until I am in.)
Tip: use any waiting time to pre-write all the application categories and make your introduction video. The delay may be disappointing but it is an opportunity to fine tune your application text and review your video a few times, and perhaps re-film it to make sure your application is as strong as it can be. There is so much competition!
(Spoiler: My video is SO bad, I am cringing so much every time I even think of it.)
A downside of Italki, what’s not so good on italki: It attracts a high number of students who only take one single single class with tutors.
My suggestion for language learners: Book at least 3 classes with a teacher to try them out. After just one lesson you really can’t tell if you will get on well with the person you chose. One of my teachers was a bit cold in the first lesson and it took me time to warm up to her. Now I am a loyal student and have booked at least 12 classes with her to date. Getting into tune with a teacher / tutor
The second platform I applied to is Verbling. The application process is smooth, clear and straightforward. Unfortunately I don’t think I heard back from them. I think this could be because I chanced a portion of my application: Their English teaching applications were also closed so I swapped some words around and applied to tutor German language instead. But obviously my video is geared towards tutoring English. Well. Perhaps I should not be surprised that they are ignoring me.
Time to go back to the drawing board and prepare a more focused application for Verbling. I hear that their payout structure is fair and clear and one of my language tutors prefers to teach on Verbling as she says the platform attracts more students who take multiple classes than Italki does.
I have quite a bit to say about Preply. I applied on the same day as I placed my application with Verbling and Preply were quite responsive and made a good impression during the application process. I made some mistakes in my application: Having uploaded my video to my personal Youtube page, which I am also using to build a portfolio of videos for my Art and creative producer career. Preply requested that I upload my introduction video to a separate youtube page that doesn’t link to a professional account nor offers a way to contact me outside of the Preply platform. This is absolutely reasonable. So I re-uploaded my video to a fresh Google account.
By the way: Sorry Google, you have to deal with SO many burner accounts for platforms like Preply, which require their applicants to open these otherwise dormant accounts. I am just thinking about the amount of additional digital data spaghetti that is created as a result. And all of this needs powering.. I digress.
Then I must have accidentally mentioned Italki in this introduction video and Preply asked me to remove the reference to Italki. Blast. I slipped up. I was all set to check if I can edit OUT the Italki reference in iMovie, when suddenly a few days later an email from Preply confirmed that they have approved me onto the platform after all.
This caused some excitement and I immediately launched to completing my teacher profile. While I was filling it in I received multiple messages and class requests. Things are looking good. Until I realised that a lesson price had been pre-set at a price point that I didn’t agree with. It took me a while to find my way to this page. One of my prospective students had already booked 6 lessons with me at this price.
The more I looked into the platform the less I liked the system by which they operate. I don’t get a say in the pricing of multi-lesson-packages. Students can book 10 lessons at a set discount price, and I can’t opt out of this. To this date I am not sure how payment on 10 packs of lessons work. Do I get paid after each lesson or only after students complete all 10? That’s something I could figure out. It’s not entirely a deal breaker but I do prefer to have the option to choose what packages I offer.
Italki let’s teachers set lesson package offers, both number of lessons and pricing of package discounts. I prefer this.
Preply’s payment structure, it’s not exactly secret but I didn’t realise when I signed up that Preply does NOT pay teachers for ANY first lessons with EACH new student. Remember how in Italki many students only take one lesson? The teachers I have worked with report that the majority of their classes are with students who only book a single lesson. This is alarming. Preply wouldn’t pay for ANY first lessons. But it also expects its teachers to teach a FULL hour for first lessons AND instructs teachers on how to up-sell lesson packages.
How to get paid on Preply? I can’t actually tell you. After cycling through their interface for a good while I didn’t see a place to add my payment details. This is something I would love to be able to find as quickly as the ‘add your profile picture’ button.
My next concern is that Preply takes 33% of teacher’s lesson fees. I am not sure if they charge students a booking fee in addition to this. This 33% eventually drops to 25% but not until after the teachers have given a lot of lessons. I am not sure how they justify this but it you read the low ranging Trustpilot reviews you’ll see how these two policies combined create a lot of disgruntled students and teachers alike. Students are upset because teachers finish lessons 5-10 minutes early (to make it in time to the next underpaid lesson on which they need to over-deliver to retain students.) Teachers are upset because their first lessons aren’t paid. Then there are some reports of teachers who did ok on the platform and finally reached the 25% percent (getting paid 75%) rate and at this exact point Preply mysteriously decides that their profile doesn’t meet their standards and suspends their account without paying out their remaining $500 pay.
All this sounds alarming but also unsurprising. I have heard similar experiences about other teaching platforms (one that only accepts native English speaker passport holders.) A person was with a platform for 2 years, did great and from one day to the next their account got flagged, coinciding with when they had reached a milestone that was financially beneficial to them. I have heard these reports multiple times from multiple platforms and keep them in mind as a word of caution:
Build an income octopus, don’t rely on just one single income source. Build at least 2 strong profiles on 2 separate English Language teaching platforms in case one of them pulls the carpet beneath your feet with policy changes, an unintended operating glitch, or other practice that puts you at a disadvantage or out of business on that platform.
I sat through 2 hours of various Preply on boarding videos, they call them courses, that speak about how to conduct your first lesson with students, the importance of up-selling, how to improve student retention. It all basically went the way that all gig-economy goes: Deliver 3x the value of the price paid. It sometimes feels a little obnoxious to be told how to be so perfect while knowing that the only way to get students is to charge 30% of a living wage and while simultaneously knowing that out of 30 first lesson bookings I will receive exactly $0 from Preply. Another concern I have with Preply is that I don’t know if they have a minimum threshold for paying out nor their payment schedules. Do they pay instantly, weekly, monthly?
I suggest you read 15-20 low 1-2 star review on trust pilot about Preply AND read their replies. You’ll realise that they use the exact same 2-3 replies for all complaints and this level of lack of personalisation in replying on a platform like Trustpilot speaks volumes to me.
I wanted to love Preply. I sincerely did. I re-scheduled the booked lessons to gain some time to consider what to do and it is best to withdraw entirely from the platform as otherwise the students who booked a lesson package would be locked in and really struggle to get a refund and frankly I am not working for free. Whose idea is it to not pay tutors and expect them to make a glorious, over-delivering first impression?
Preply scores: 0/5 for me
I have had a presence on Wyzant for a while, I once found an in-person student through it who offered $60 per lesson. Technically, as with all sites, tutors have an obligation to accept payments through Wyzant and NOT conduct payments outside of the platform. But frankly: 20% to me is still just too high a commission to pay. I know that platforms have overheads, the engineers and teams need to be paid. But 20% on ALL these gig economy platforms is just too much. That aside let’s talk more about Wyzant.
The interface is reasonable but I get a LOT of requests from students who want a lesson at a specific time but don’t even answer my question: “Which time zone are you in?”. Wyzant’s interface isn’t brilliant for clarifying schedules and time zones. It would be great if they could work a little bit on this to make them truly competitive.
In May I wasted at least a whole hour on messaging back and forth with a student who can not read simple questions nor answer them. I received repeated messages about wanting lessons without clarification what exactly he needed (grammar isn’t my strongpoint, I have to make sure I don’t waste my prospective student’s time if detailed knowledge of grammar is their key reason for booking lessons.) His lack of clarity caused us both a lot of frustration and in the end I had spent an hour unpaid trying to just schedule a first call with him.
I blame the usability of the platform interface more than the student. A really good platform makes it really easy to schedule. Check how smooth the experience is on Verbling or Italki. (I am not enrolled as a teacher on Verbling yet but have spent time exploring the platform and it looks very promising.) Neither of these two platforms require extensive back and forth messaging with prospective students.
On Wyzant I have had about 7 enquiries and 1 booked student this month. The lesson with the student is tomorrow and I’ll have to report back how payment worked. This is the first time that I am accepting payment through the Wyzant platform. It will be interesting to see how it works.
What’s good about Wyzant: The original process of signing up was smooth and I can easily change my profile. They do now have several options to provide evidence of qualification, which I also appreciate.
A friend told me about LivXP yesterday and I signed up straight away. I am a bit of a geek and like to get the insider perspective on new company profiles. Everything went quite smoothly until right at the end! The ONLY way to complete and set live your profile is by downloading an App. Now I don’t know about you but when I have never heard of a company before and can not find the privacy statement on their app then I really don’t want to have their app. Preply did a similar thing but with my being at least familiar with the name Preply I took the risk a little more readily. But with LivXP this was a deal breaker.
You can’t complete your profile without downloading the app. It’s impossible. The claim is that having the app on your phone will help you be on time for your lessons and to respond faster to incoming requests. I don’t know about you but 1) I reply as soon as I can anyway (I get notified through email notifications and don’t need an app, 2) I choose to have a life and resent being hounded every moment of it for one off lesson requests. I am not familiar with how LivXP conducts their lesson bookings but if it is anything like Wyzant it could lead to having to reply to prospective students rather than accepting lesson bookings. I don’t want to be on call for people who haven’t yet paid me. You may call this an attitude issue but bear in mind: unless you get paid above average all this extra time is coming out of your pocket. I am happy to schedule daily admin time but don’t hound me on every digital device known to man.
Well. Now what? I am considering getting a burner phone to download all these sketchy apps to. I say sketchy because how can small companies afford a strong developer team who keep high standards of data security? This really matters as our entire lives are hooked to our phones and data breaches can cost incredible amounts of time and money to recover from.
Have you ever been in a position of having to change 100 passwords? I have have. It’s unpleasant and extremely stressful and will take you a working day.
LivXP score 1/5, I would assign more points if the mandatory use of the app is removed. I quite liked the interface up to that point. But I can’t continue until I get a burner phone*.
*I hear you ask (nobody asks but maybe you would?) What is a burner phone? It’s a phone that isn’t hooked up to any personal data whatsoever, now which I install a ‘burner’ Apple ID purely so that I can comply with the mandatory app use. If the app is unsafe and syphons off personal data it will then not gain any useful data on me as the phone simply won’t contain anything of interest beside the LivXP and possible a handful of other deemed unsafe apps. I count Tiktok as an app I wouldn’t install on my main phone finally getting set up with a burner phone and burner Apple ID account would allow me to take part in the TikTok craze, too. (But is that a good thing? It depends what for. For business visibility building and marketing it could be. That’s another post I should write).
Value your data security. And don’t underestimate how relentlessly invasive gig economy can be on your life without paying you enough to make up for it. It’s your job to protect your time and don’t let fear lead you to bending over backwards to every request. Your mental and physical health matter. Make sure that YOU create the working environment that YOU can thrive in. When you give in to chasing after every penny and join the race to the bottom then you will get exactly that: pennies and exhaustion. Nobody else will protect your time, this is your job.
Use the time to protect to learn additional skills that increase your value so that you don’t become trapped in the whims of gig-economy demands.
Craigslist in San Francisco. This is one of my favourites! I am not sure how you all do it but I seem to not be able to place free adverts for German / English Lessons anymore. I used to be able to in the past. But even on the paid adverts (they are about $5) I often get at least 1 paying student response at the rate that I set. That is worth it for me. These students are typically repeat students and the $5 marketing cost for my lesson is worth it.
You may have to deal with a few too many sex requests. I find that upsetting but am able to navigate this. I include LESS photos of me then I don’t get as many of these inappropriate messages. Unfortunately I then also have a lower chance of getting students.
Use of language disclaimer: Teacher, instructor, tutor. I am a little sloppy in my use of language and am using teacher & tutor almost interchangeably despite knowing they may mean different things to you. I am partially doing this to catch more of the Google algorithms attention. More on this later if you are interested. In the meantime I welcome your criticism on my lack of differentiation between the terms.
Don’t let perfectionism stop you from getting started. You should be able to edit your profiles (tutor headshot, descriptions texts, introduction video) on all platforms. Get started. Then start taking a sincere look at your presentation.
What can you improve today? What can you plan to work on this weekend? I think my copy (this is the text) is pretty good at this point. My next concern is that I don’t have up to date photos of myself as I have made a leap in ageing and have been feeling very un-photogenic. I am constantly tired and it is hard to find a good time to take new portrait / headshot photos of myself for my public profiles. If this is you, too: brace yourself and maybe go on craigslist and find a couple of photographers. I say a couple on purpose.
I am a firm believer in booking multiple sessions when it comes to language learning as well as to booking creative work. Different photographers may have different styles of working and of editing your images in post. (‘post’ means postproduction, this can be in an Adobe software like Lightroom/photoshop or can be on an alternative software.) It is totally ok to ask your photographer to remove some glaring spots on your face or if you know your skin is tired a photographer may be able to soften the appearance a little. If you did want a full on retouching job it WILL cost more.
When I deliver portrait photos I don’t do any heavy editing but to reduce the appearance of blemishes takes time. So be respectful when asking for support in ‘appearance.’ But also don’t be scared to ask. You should also clarify that you don’t want to look 20 years younger (some photographers go HEAVY on the retouching in post) because after all you need these photos to make a realistic impression with your gig economy clients / aka students.
Did I cover everything? Do you have any questions? Do you know of additional platforms that people who don’t have an English speaker passport can teach English on? (Ideally while also getting paid..) Let me know your questions and experiences in the comments. Expressions of appreciation are also welcome.
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